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Understanding Developmental Disabilities – A Simple Guide for Families and Communities


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What Are Developmental Disabilities?

Developmental Disabilities (DD) are long-term conditions that affect how a person learns, communicates, moves, behaves, or takes care of themselves. These disabilities begin during childhood, usually before the age of 18, and continue across a person’s life.

A person with a developmental disability may have challenges with:

  • Learning and understanding new information

  • Speaking or communicating with others

  • Walking, movement, or coordination

  • Social skills and emotions

  • Daily living tasks (like cooking, hygiene, money, planning)

They are not a disease and cannot be “cured”, but with the right support, people with developmental disabilities can live meaningful, independent, and happy lives.


Why Are They Called “Developmental”?

They are called developmental because they affect a child's development — how they grow, learn, and gain skills.

A child without a disability usually follows typical milestones:

  • Sitting → Walking → Talking → Socialising → Reading → Independence

A child with a developmental disability may:

  • Reach milestones later

  • Learn in a different way or need more time

  • Need extra support from family, school, or therapists


Common Types of Developmental Disabilities

There are many types of DD. Some of the most common include:

Type

Short Description

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)

Affects communication, social skills, and behavior.

Down Syndrome

Caused by an extra chromosome (21); affects learning and physical growth.

Intellectual Disability

Below-average thinking and learning skills; requires daily living support.

Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD)

Caused by alcohol exposure during pregnancy; affects behavior, memory, and emotional control.

Cerebral Palsy

Affects body movement and muscle coordination due to brain injury before or after birth.

ADHD, Learning Disorders, Speech Delays

These are also neurodevelopmental disabilities and can co-exist with other conditions.

Each person is unique—two people with the same disability may have completely different abilities and challenges.


Early Signs Parents or Caregivers Might Notice

Some families may notice signs early, while others only discover them when a child starts school. Early signs can include:

  • Delayed speech (not speaking words by age 2–3)

  • No eye contact, little response to name

  • Difficulty walking, poor balance

  • Trouble learning simple things like shapes, colors, or following instructions

  • Repetitive behaviors or strong interests (lining up toys, focusing only on one subject)

  • Emotional meltdowns, frustration, difficulty communicating needs

Important reminder: Every child grows at their own pace. Not every delay means disability. Only a doctor or specialist can diagnose.


Causes – Why Do Developmental Disabilities Happen?

Developmental disabilities can happen for many reasons, including:

Before Birth (Prenatal)

  • Genetic conditions (Down Syndrome, Fragile X)

  • Alcohol or drug use during pregnancy (FASD)

  • Lack of oxygen or nutrition in the womb

During Birth

  • Oxygen loss

  • Premature birth

  • Difficult delivery injuries (can cause cerebral palsy)

After Birth (Postnatal)

  • High fever, infections (meningitis, measles)

  • Brain injuries or accidents

  • Severe malnutrition


Why Diagnosis Is Often Late for Immigrant Families

Many immigrant parents face unique challenges when understanding developmental disabilities:

  • Language barriers – Not knowing how to ask for help or where to go.

  • Cultural beliefs – Some cultures believe disabilities are shameful or caused by bad parenting.

  • Fear of judgment – Parents worry people will blame them or judge their child.

  • Lack of information – Many don’t know about speech therapy, day programs, or government support.


At ELCSS, many families have said:"I knew something was different, but I didn’t know what to do or who to talk to."

But asking for help is not weakness — it is love and protection.


There Is No Cure—But There Is Support

While developmental disabilities last a lifetime, support can change everything.With the right services, people with DD can:✔ Learn life skills (cooking, money management)✔ Make friends✔ Get jobs and volunteer✔ Enjoy art, music, sports, and community events✔ Live with dignity and independence


Can People with Developmental Disabilities Live a Good Life?

YES.With the right support, people with DD can:

✔ Learn cooking, money, hygiene, job skills

✔ Make friends and join programs

✔ Work or volunteer

✔ Be creative — art, music, photography, sports

✔ Live independently or semi-independently


How ELCSS Supports Individuals and Families

At EmpowerLiving Community Services Society (ELCSS), we focus on:

  • Day Programs for Adults with Developmental Disabilities– Life skills, budgeting, cooking, ESL, job training, social activities

  • Person-Centered Support– Each individual has their own strengths and goals

  • Family & Caregiver Guidance– Help understanding funding (CLBC), diagnosis, respite care

  • Inclusive Community Activities– Art workshops, computer classes, group outings, cultural events

Our goal is simple: empower individuals to live with dignity, purpose, and independence.


The future of ELCSS is one built on compassion, inclusion, and endless possibility.


 Join Our Community

If you or your loved one is looking for a supportive, inclusive day program in the Tri-Cities area, we would love to meet you.

Phone: 604-945-2117

Together, we can create a community where every individual — regardless of ability — is empowered to live, learn, and belong.
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